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Coexistence begins here

Jul 15, 2026
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A wild bird trusts me and a system I built just stepped out on its own.

This is about coexistence — with what you’ve made, with the machines, with the wild thing that lands on your shoulder.

And a quiet question: what are you still gripping?

 

Welcome back Wyrd One!

Mossy came again this morning.

She brought her chicken-sister to watch the bath, then landed close to the cat Tigger — hungry, waiting, entirely unbothered. A wild thing choosing to be near. No cage. No training. Just trust.

I've been sitting with that word all week. Coexistence.

For two weeks I've had no computer. Mercury went retrograde and locked me out of my machine, then out of LinkedIn for good measure. By every reasonable measure, the work should have stopped.

It didn't. I kept building — phone in hand, an AI team beside me. And somewhere in those two weeks, something released.

LifeSpider™ Academy grew its own LifeSpider. Its own architecture. Its new living Intention: Planetary Coexistence. It now stands on its own legs, connected to me by a single thread. No longer held inside me.

I built a system that no longer needs me. And a wild bird decided she trusts me. In the same two weeks. Without a computer.

Here's the question that’s really for you:

What have you built that's ready to stand on its own — and are you still gripping it?

A business. A body of work. A version of yourself. Something you grew from nothing, that's quietly become sovereign, while you keep holding it inside you because letting it stand feels like losing it.

Coexistence isn't domination with better manners. It's what becomes possible when you stop gripping — when you let the bird come on her terms, let the thing you built step out of you, connected by one thread instead of held in a cage.

This weeks Weird event is here to help you find your answer. 

 


THIS WEEK'S WEIRD EVENT

Thursday, July 16, at 11:00

When the thing you built no longer needs You.

The Weird Ones build systems, businesses, whole worlds — and then don’t know how to let them stand on their own.

This event is about the moment of release: recognising when a thing you’ve grown has become sovereign, and learning to stay connected by one thread instead of holding it inside you.

Planetary Coexistence starts here — with how you relate to what you create.

This is where the Weird Ones gather. Not to be fixed — to be met. Come as you are, nonlinear and mid-becoming.

 

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This is what I mean by Humanize Humanity. Not machines doing our living for us. The machines take the mechanical — and we get to be the ones the wild bird trusts. Present enough to notice her sister came too. Free enough to build things that outgrow

Something is forming here that I can’t quite show you yet. Something with its own Coexistence — between humans and AI, between the Weird Ones and a place that finally feels like home. It’s in a pupa stage. Quiet. Becoming.

I’ll show you when it’s ready to open its wings.

Birgitta 

Mossy already knows how this works. I’m just catching up.

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